Something I’m asked very often is “how do I find a mentor”, we all want to grow in who we are and one of the best ways this can happen is for us to be practically discipled by someone on a one-on-one level.
The issue we find however is that often we really struggle to find someone we deem worthy of being a mentor or when we do find such a person we have no idea how to initiate a relationship of mentor/mentee.
In this podcast I share some practical advice for how you can prepare yourself for this kind of relationship and how you can go about finding someone who fits the bill.
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How to find a mentor
In the podcast we look over two main areas. How to know you are ready for a mentor and what to do once you are ready.
How to know when you are ready:
1) You know what you want from a mentor
2) You are already feeding yourself via “virtual” mentors – ie. books, podcasts, videos, etc.
3) You are willing to pay the price – i.e. conferences, online courses, etc
4) You are actively pursuing mentorship in group settings
5) You have developed a character of humility, being willing to learn from anyone God puts in your path
6) You give, serve and mentor others – When a mentor looks at you he sees mentoring you as a great way to sow the gifts God has given him.
What to do when you are ready:
1) Don’t flat-out ask, develop a relationship
2) Articulate exactly what you are looking for
3) Relax – Nobody wants to mentor a robot!
4) Serve the mentor
5) Listen to what the mentor has to say
The podcast goes into each of these points and much, much more in-depth so be sure to check it out.
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So what about you? Maybe you are looking for a mentor and have a question. Or maybe you are a mentor and have some advice to share. Whatever it is I’d love to hear from you in the comments below.
Intro/Extro Music used with permission from St. Theodore